President Haynes, Deans, beloved faculty, and distinguished guests, welcome. And to my fellow Cougar graduates, Congratulations! I would like to thank our families, who have worked almost as hard as we have to realize this day. I honor my husband Michael, my children Lauren and Alex, my friends and family who have helped me earn this degree. Thank you.
Five minutes after my last final, I updated my facebook status. It read: after 15 years of classes, 4 colleges in 4 states,12 proud years as a Marine Corp wife, 6 deployments, 2 children, 5 papers and 7 finals… just this week… today… I have finally graduated.
My story is not unique at Cal State San Marcos. Most graduating today have juggled jobs, families, fought for our country, commuted countless miles or even taken one class at a time. For some, today is a beginning; for others of us, this is a victory years in the making. I am proud to be graduating from a university that values both journeys. So, whether you came to San Marcos as a true freshman or started college alongside your own freshman, I congratulate you. Well done!
What do you say to people who collectively know almost everything? It was a bit daunting, but here is some wisdom I have learned.
Life is not all about me. Money, education and esteem are worth little unless you employ them to help others. Put your neighbor’s needs above your own.
Ethical and virtuous behavior should not be what we profess but what we practice. No amount of fortune or fame is worth losing your integrity.
Now is the time to take chances. Trust your instincts, but listen to wise counsel.
Explore the world so you can learn about who you are. And travel now, while youth hostels are still fun.
Dreams are achieved through hard work and time, so have more patience than pride. Stay teachable so you don’t miss new discoveries that lie ahead. Embrace adversity and failure, they fuel creativity.
Attitude is everything. Decide to wake each morning purposeful and positive. Negativity will break a company, a community, a country.
Remember, life is short; don’t just seek a job; seek a purpose, seek your passion, seek to make a difference.
Life is short; don’t waste energy and time envying someone else’s life. Seek to make yours worthy. Surround yourself with people who do the same.
Life is short; don’t wait for a future event to make you happy. Enjoy the journey now. Embrace each day, finish them well.
You have a purpose in this life, don’t settle for anything less. Congratulations Graduating Class of 2011.
To God be all the honor and praise.
Copyright Amie Charney 2011
San Marcos, CA – May 21, 2011 – Amie Charney was selected from the California State University San Marcos Graduating Class of 2011 to give the commencement address at the Saturday afternoon commencement ceremony (May 21, 2011, 2 PM). Charney graduated Magna Cum Laude with her degree in Literature and Writing.